Discipline
Six-year olds go through a period of noncompliance and opposition to parents' instructions. They may act like they don't hear you or dawdle before complying. If you don't follow through, they will take advantage of your inattention and ignore your request. This period passes rather quickly and is an expression of the developing self. Don't panic. Use effective strategies for giving instructions, i.e. call them to come to you, make direct eye contact, give the instruction and pay attention to ensure that she complies.
You may notice signs of tension in your six-year old. Twirling hair, foot tapping, scratching or picking sores may be common, along with irritability and crying easily. Help your six-year old cope with tension through talk time to identify feelings and talk about fears. Physical activity helps tension in a positive way; cupcakes don't.
Finally, don't offer your six-year old choices that he can't handle. He's more comfortable with clear rules and prescribed routines. Keep choices very simple; for example, let him choose between the red shirt and the blue shirt. Don't make him responsible for choosing his entire outfit for school in the morning.
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