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Grief and Children
How Elementary School-Age Children Express Grief and Ways You Can Help

by Kimberly L. Keith
for About.com

How Elementary School-Age Children Express Grief

  • School and learning problems
  • Preoccupation with the loss and related worries; daydreaming; trouble paying attention
  • Bedwetting; regression; developmental delays
  • Eating and sleeping problems (overeating, refusing to eat, nightmares, sleepiness)
  • Fighting, anger

Helping the Grieving Elementary School-Age Child

  • Keep tasks simple. Explain things before they experience them - new neighborhood, school, church, family routines and changes.
  • Provide a structured environment that is predictable and consistent; limit choices; introduce small, manageable choices over time.
  • Contain acting out behavior; insist that children express their wants, needs, and feelings with words, not by acting out.
  • Encourage them to let you know when they are worried or having a difficult time.
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