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Grief and Children
How Preschoolers Express Grief and Ways You Can Help

by Kimberly L. Keith
for About.com

How Preschoolers Express Grief

  • Bedwetting
  • Thumb sucking
  • Clinging to adults
  • Exaggerated fears
  • Excessive crying
  • Temper tantrums
  • Regression
  • Stubbornness

Helping the Grieving Preschooler

  • Answer the child's question honestly and simply; allow them to talk about the loss; help them share their fears and worries.
  • Provide simple routines.
  • Give the child affection and nurturing; attempt to connect with them.
  • Provide more opportunities for play.
  • Be patient with regressive behaviors such as thumb sucking.
  • Provide opportunities for the expression of painful emotions through play, creative outlets, and talk. Teach them to recognize and name their full range of feelings.
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